I get a lot of inspiration from other bloggers out there, and this post is inspired by one of my favorites - Ashley over at
The Stork and the Beanstalk. I love her witty sense of humor, her photos, and how she authentically captures her family's life. Nevermind that her blog's gorgeous and simple design is one that my limited HTML knowledge can only aspire to! So I hope she won't mind that I borrow (and slightly amend) her categories for tracking and reflecting on her children's monthly milestones. Even though this blog isn't just about Liam's growth, it is about my evolution as a Mom and I'd like to track his monthly developments somewhere. So here we go...
Growth & Appearance
Liam, you're looking more and more like a little man each day. Your face has filled out, and you have little rolls on your ankles, thighs, and wrists. Dad measures you often, and your now over 27 inches and past the 15 lb. mark. You're almost doubled your birth weight! You're a very happy little guy, and smile at us and at strangers often. You still have this big bald spot on the back of your head, and it looks like we cut a layer of your hair off (we didn't, I promise). But overall, your hair is lightening up a bit from the color it was at your birth. You're still in size 2 diapers, but I'm dressing you in mostly 6-9 month clothing now. No teeth yet, which I'm fine with and I think you are too. I love nuzzling into the rolls on your neck and feeling your head lean against my shoulder as you fall asleep.
Eating
Only breast milk for you!
But you're showing an interest in food. Or maybe it's just that food looks interesting and things like glasses and bowls look even more interesting. You reach for
everything, and the majority of those things go in your mouth. So it's hard to say you're specifically interested in food. So far, all you've eaten is paper, in what we'll just call a lack of parental judgement on my part.
Sleeping
You're starting to fall into more predictable patterns of sleep. During the day, you want to sleep every 2 hours and are usually asleep for anywhere from 30-90 minutes.
We've also moved past the point where it takes 45 minutes to an hour to get you
down for the nap. I don't miss that phase. At night, your bedtime routine is to have a massage, get pajamas on, read a book or sing songs, nurse, and then go to sleep. You get a bath before your bedtime routine on Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday nights. We try to have you in bed by 8pm. But sometimes it's 7:30 if you didn't nap well that day, or 8:30 if we start the routine late.
You can sometimes fall asleep on your own at night. Naps, you need a bit more help. But, if you wake up then you'll often put yourself back to sleep unless you're hungry or find yourself in an uncomfortable position that you can't get out of. You wake up 1-3 times per night and now I've gotten lazy and just have you sleep in bed with me for a few hours since we both fall asleep during our night feeding. Right now, I'm still sharing a room with you, although I miss your Dad so that might be changing soon.
Transitioning to the crib from the co-sleeper was a rough week. But now you understand that that is the new place you sleep and you seem to like it. I find you in all sorts of positions - on your side (that's a new one), on your back, on your tummy (although you sometimes wake me up when you end up on your tummy because you can't figure out how to a) get back to sleep or b) get turned back to your back).
Development
Around 4.5 months you figured out how to roll from your back to your front. At about this same time you forgot how to roll from your front to your back. You're starting to remember it though so I know you'll integrate it again soon. You also seem to like being on your side.
You thump your feet, which is so adorable. One time, I tried thumping with you to see what it felt like. It's
quite a workout and core strengthener! And when you get really excited you hit your sides with your arms, straighten your legs, and make little grunting/laughing sounds. I still can't figure out why you find some things so funny, but you laugh at the most random things. Like me saying "good morning", or "what's so funny?" I think you learn a lot of your new moves and sounds by observing other babies in our Waldorf class.
Favorites
I think I'm your favorite. If someone else is holding you you'll often reach back for me. But you're usually pretty comfortable with strangers as long as you know I'm there.
You love all of your toys and seem to give them equal play time. A recent favorite has been your Indestructible books - which you can crunch, crush, and put in your mouth. You also love your silk, and rotate equally between playing with your bee, bird, and owl toys. You can spend a long period of time exploring the texture of material - whether it's scratching the carpet, raking your fingers along the changing table pad, or swatting at the wall. I love imagining what's going through your mind as you explore the details of what's in front of you.
Nicknames
- Nugget
- Tara dactyl and Dolphin (you make a high pitched sound or squawk)
- Monkey
- Li'l Fish
- Thumper (you love thumping your feet against the floor. I'm sure our downstairs neighbors love this too.)
Books and Songs You Love
- Mother Goose
- The Big Red Barn
- The Napping House
- Itsy Bitsy Spider
- Patty Cake
- Liam's Nugget Song (the silly song I made up for you about how you're a nugget and you sit on a bucket. I'm sorry. I promise I'll stop singing it by the time you're 15)